Aug 11

The Sock Saga

About three weeks ago my 10 month old Zorro started stealing my white sneaker socks out of my laundry basket so he could play with them. Well, this would be OK, but he then takes them to the kitchen and dunks them, one by one, in his water bowl. I’ve observed him submerging each sock with his paw until it is completely soaked. Most of the wet socks, then, end up in my bed! Such a nice surprise each morning to roll over onto wet socks!

I thought I’d be clever one night and place all the socks on the bottom of the basket and pack the other dirty clothes on top. Surely this would keep him from pulling out the socks, right? WRONG! He moved the other clothes during the night and pulled out the socks, soaked them and deposited seven of them in my bed.

So, most of my white sneaker socks were hanging on the shower curtain rod to dry.  The little stinker figured out a way to get at them by hopping up onto the window ledge and then reaching up and knocking the socks down. He deserves credit for persistence! I chased after him and got my socks back (again).

I’ve now relocated the laundry basket inside a closet that has a latching door.

Zorro is now on to bigger and better adventures: dumping out the bathroom trash can. UGGGH!

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Jul 24

Rules About Comments

I welcome comments to my blog, however, it’s become clear already that I need to control what is posted by the general public.

Some of my settings:

All comments must be approved before they will appear in my blog.

No comments containing vulgarity will be posted. I’ve set the filters quite high. If you cannot effectively express yourself without using foul language then you probably need to go back to school before you write in public.

Allowable avatars are G and PG rated. (PG is usually intended for ages 13 and above)

Spam messages will not be approved.

Agree, disagree or add information to what I, or others, write but do so with respect!

If you don’t like my rules, find another blog to read!

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Jul 14

Forgive, And Move On?

Today, someone very dear to me, and who cares about me greatly, could not understand why I was attempting to continue a personal, loving friendship with someone who had blatantly “done me wrong.” I appreciate the love and concern, but I began to think about the bigger issue: can, and should, a broken relationship between people be mended?

Our most important relationship is, without doubt, our personal relationship with God. He forgives us no matter what we have done. We ask for forgiveness, we repent and we are forgiven. Shouldn’t we forgive others as God forgives us? Yes and no.

John 13:34-35 states:

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

I could quote Bible verses all day, but what does God really want us to do in practical application? Certain severe and repetitive issues are deal-breakers for me.

I don’t think God wants a battered wife (or husband) to stay for more abuse. I don’t think God wants a child taken to the ER multiple times with severe injuries to be returned to his/her home without meticulous investigation of the situation. These types of issues require not only prayer but legal intervention as well and are complicated.

What about friendships and non-violent family feuds? To me, it depends on the issue(s) at hand, how sincere the person is in apologizing and how many times you’ve had the problem(s). As with the severe situations mentioned above I don’t think God wants us to allow others to walk over us repeatedly, but how much is too much? Where do we draw the line? What would Jesus do?

For me, if an issue can be discussed, both parties take responsibility for their individual actions, a solution is agreed upon, and both sincerely want a reconciliation and are willing to work at repairing the relationship, then why not?

For some, such as my concerned loved one earlier today, reconciling after my hurtful and involved argument with a friend would not be an option. This person is actually angry with me for even considering opening my heart up to my offending friend. I think each of us has a varied tolerance for these types of things. I respect my loved one’s opinion, but for me, I’m not ready to lose my friend.

I feel that we’ve discussed the issues at great length, we’ve each taken responsibility for our part in the problems, we’ve agreed on solutions, and we’ve agreed that we want to move forward.

I will admit that my heart is guarded; it will take time for us to rebuild the trust and comfort level we had before the argument. Perhaps we will never get back to the way things were before the argument, but then again, that might be a good thing. We might have a better relationship moving forward.

As for my loved one, I pray that he/she will learn to respect our varied opinions.

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Jul 10

With Sadness And Joyful Memories

I mentioned in my post on July 5th that my friend Keith had lost one of his beloved four dogs. Well, as it turns out, the unthinkable happened.

In an apparent reaction to witnessing the home burial of the first dog, the smallest dog, ChaCha, became critically ill, had to be hospitalized and eventually had to be put down two days later. They were both 14 and they lived long, happy lives, but the timing was a lot to bear.

I babysat for these four dogs quite a number of times when Keith was out on the road for the ministry or on vacation, staying at his house round the clock for a week or more at a time to let them out every couple of hours and to allow the continuance of their own routine (or as close as I possibly could get).

For ChiChi, I was upset and I cried a few tears but somehow I was able to accept the fact that she had been ill for quite a while and it was truly her time to go. The loss of ChaCha crushed my heart, and I cried buckets of tears.

ChiChi and ChaCha both reached age 14, and I can tell you that they were well cared for, pampered and loved.

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Jul 05

8 Weeks in Mississippi Now

Zorro turned 9 months old this week and is almost the same size as Kelli who’s almost 10 yo. I think Kelli still outweighs him by about two pounds. She’s still my “fat-bottomed girl!” (Remember that song?) They have both settled into their new home and love the hard tile floors without carpet. It makes playing Tag and sliding much easier as they run from room to room to room. Also, with one whack their plastic jingly balls fly across the floor and into the next room. They miss their huge scratching post that we left in storage in Houston. (Or is it me who misses it?) My little heathens scratch anything they feel like until I chase them off of it. We “play” this game several times per hour.

I just got word from my friend, Keith, that he buried one of his dogs, ChiChi, today. I’m extremely saddened by this. I’ve stayed at his house several different weeks caring for his four dogs while Keith was out on the road with the ministry and/or gone on vacation. Needless to say, I grew very close to his dogs and will miss ChiChi very much.

I took Kelli on a road trip to Corinth a few weeks ago when I had to go up to Walgreens for prescription refills. I thought she was going to burn out her purr motor. On the way up she looked out the window and stood up on the dash to make sure she didn’t miss anything. She still doesn’t like it when I step on the brakes or take a hard right turn. She seems to have softened a bit over the years regarding semi trucks. On the way back, she curled up on the seat but sniffed the air as we passed by each farm or small neighborhood. When we got back to town I called my friend, Jimmy, and we decided to meet at the Huddle House for a late night dinner. Kelli slept in the car with the windows cracked just a bit. Thank goodness for cool evenings back then. Now, it’s way too hot for her to stay in the car more than 5 minutes, so she’ll probably have to wait several months before another trip.

Zorro experienced his first fireworks last night, and he was not amused! Kelli was basically unimpressed and curled up on the end of my bed. Zorro eventually curled up with her with his head on her backside and his paws hugging her. She seemed to understand his fears and allowed it. I kept waiting for the screamed “Get off of me!” but it never came. They both fell asleep.

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Jul 04

Iron Man 2 Not Quite As Strong

MOVIE: Iron Man 2 (2010)
“Iron Man 2 Not Quite As Strong”
written June 16, 2010

I left the original Iron Man movie excited and well-entertained. Iron Man 2 fell a little flat as far as the storyline is concerned. The acting was great, and the effects were good. Perhaps it isn’t fair to always compare the sequel to the original, but I think we do that naturally. The story is resolved by the end but without much suspense. The writing felt forced, as if each scene had to be there but the writers couldn’t wait to get to the end. Perhaps they were on too tight of a deadline? Tony Stark and Pepper are as lovable as the first go around, and I especially enjoyed the character of Agent Romanoff, played by Scarlett Johansson. She has a scene that will knock your socks off if you’re an original Matrix fan. Overall, it was worth seeing, and I can’t wait to see it again on DVD.

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Jul 04

Date Night And I Should Have Stayed Home

MOVIE: Date Night (2010)
“Date Night And I Should Have Stayed Home”
written May 21, 2010

I didn’t expect much, and I wasn’t disappointed. There were times I laughed, but it was mostly at how pathetic the writing was. There was little to no suspense. The actors did what they could with what they were given. Tina Fey pulled off a good performance despite all odds because she can. It got better towards the end with a few truly funny lines. The Fosters were indeed a boring couple from beginning to end, having to endure a series of poorly written action scenes. Rent this one when it comes out if you have time to kill, but I wouldn’t waste the money to see it on the big screen.

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Jul 01

Advantages Of Living In Booneville, MS Instead Of Houston, TX

#10
It only took me one day to secure an apartment in Booneville as opposed to sitting on a list for 4 years or more waiting for elderly and disabled housing in Houston.
#9
There’s only one electric company in town, so I didn’t have to research for hours and choose.
#8
My elderly neighbors go to bed very early, so I can sneak out at night and drive to the next town 21 miles away to shop at the 24-hour Wal-mart without them ever knowing that I really do sometimes leave my apartment.
#7
You can “get out of town” for the weekend by driving less than two miles.
#6
The phone book, yes I mean ONE all-inclusive book, can be held in the palm of your hand.
#5
Everyone knows whose pet is whose walking down the street, so we all stop and say, “Hi!”
#4
There’s only one late night breakfast place in town, so after a gig we musicians never have a misunderstanding of where we’re supposed to meet.
#3
There’s a church here for everyone. Almost literally.
#2
Since Booneville is located in a dry county we don’t have a town drunk, giving us one less person to deal with.
And the #1 advantage of living in Booneville, MS instead of Houston, TX is:
I  only had to tell my life story to one person, and that person took care of telling everyone else!

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Jul 01

You’ve Found My New Blog!

Please have some patience (or offer assistance) while I get this new Blog set up and move some of my writing into the various sections. This is all still a bit overwhelming, so I’m open to help and suggestions.

Thanks,

Judy

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